Right in the middle of an ordinary life, love gives us a fairytale


Monday, May 23, 2011

In Loving Memory…

 IMG_1394This last weekend we had the opportunity to go to Oregon for Dan’s grandpa’s funeral.  Not really the reason we wanted to go on a trip, but it was nice to see family.  We made the journey with 6 of Dan’s siblings, so needless to say the car was packed, and we all got real comfortable with each other.  It was a long drive, but I’ll admit, it was pretty fun.  There are some really podunky towns on the way, which made potty breaks really fun.  We set a new record.  We got pulled over 3 times and got off without a ticket every time.  We had some sweet talkers with us.  Here are just a couple pics from the journey.oregon 1

CD Burger Shoppe:  Peter found this place on trip advisor.com, and we drove around looking for it for about 15 minutes.  When we saw it we were all a little hesitant, but we trusted the site, and it was worth it.  It was REALLY good, plus, it’s mine & Dan’s initials. :)oregon2Dan practically sliced his finger off on a Mexican Coke.  He was trying to open the bottle with the seat belt because we obviously didn’t have a bottle opener.  The whole top popped off and seriously gashed the whole top of his finger.  We couldn’t get it to stop bleeding for about 7 hours.  We also didn’t have any bandages in the car so we got real creative and wrapped a pad around it until we got to the wonderful town, or should I say gas station of Denio.  We bought a tiny first aide kit, and the gas station owner gave us what she called “a midget rubber” Needless to say, that was the joke of the trip.  He looks pretty happy but he was in a lot of pain.

And now I am handing the computer over to Dan.
My Grandpa, Rolen William Rosecrans lived in Gold Hill, Oregon on the same street his entire life.  He passed from this life Thursday, May 12, 2011, at his home. He spent the early years of his life helping his mother struggle through the great depression. He attended Gold Hill High School, where he met the love of his life, Edro June Davis. They were married on July 13, 1945, when he was home on leave from World War II.
The morning of his funeral Carlie and I went jogging with my sister. On our way back to the hotel we had to cross a bridge strewn with American flags. I stopped and asked the man putting up the flags why he was putting them up, and he told me that a local veteran had died and they wanted to honor his sacrifice. That veteran was my Grandpa. oregon3I have always been proud of him and the sacrifice he made during that time, and the countless others that he has since made on behalf me and my family. The last time I saw him I was struggling with a major decision in my life. I felt lost and worried, and I asked him for a blessing. In that blessing he told me that the Lord had a path for me and that everything would work out as long as I trusted in Him. I have heard that many times before, but when it came from him I really knew that it would happen. He had the ability to connect with people on a personal level. He was able to understand their struggles and trials and really be there for them. I think this attitude stems from his love of family. He first met my Grandma Red when he was in seventh grade.  I recently learned of a school chair that was found in Patrick Elementary school in Gold Hill only a few years ago. Carved into that chair some 70 years ago are the words, “Rolen loves Edro.” He spent his life loving just one person, he took care of her, and in the final years of her life he stayed by her side and nursed her the best that he could. He protected her, served her, and unconditionally loved her. This adoration has helped me to try and do the same for my wife. His example has helped me see why he worked so hard for the ones he loved. He wanted to make sure they understood that he would sacrifice anything for them.  oregon42009_01230054There is so much in my life that I owe to his example. He was strong, brave, humble and honest. His was a life that should be honored and revered for the way he lived. He never complained, he never gave up, and whatever he was asked to do, he did it. He went through life believing that no matter what you do, if you work hard and are honest then you can achieve anything. One summer when I was in high school, I went to Oregon for a few weeks. While there Grandpa told me we needed to go take care of the cemetery because a large tree was beginning to damage some graves there. After we got the tree down he began to chop it  into pieces and we were to load them into the bed of his truck. After an hour of hauling I was exhausted. I had helped with most of the regular sized branches, but there were some that I thought needed two people to carry. When he was done, I was standing waiting to carry them with him and he just quietly grabbed them and carried them over to the bed of the truck. He did not boast in his strength, he just did it. I was amazed that a man his age could carry so much. I did not think it was possible. Even in his old age he was the strongest man I have ever met. He was buried in the spot where that tree once stood. oregon5*Dan’s work sent the most beautiful flower arrangment.  It was so sweet.oregon6 oregon7 On Thursday May 12, he was finally able to be with Grandma again. He knew that his time had finally come and that he no longer had to fight. He no longer had to worry about the farm, or worry about those around him, he can now rest. His funeral ended with the playing of Taps by the US Navy  and my family was presented with a flag in his honor. For our family his was an ending of an era, we will miss you Grandpa, we love you.oregon 160

Sunday, May 15, 2011

Law Day run & Random

We had a nice weekend.  On Friday we went out to dinner, and came home and spent some time outside in the sunshine.  I was having a little bit of an emotional breakdown, not wanting to leave our little house and huge yard, which we have put so much time into fixing up.  But it was good to spend some time outside, enjoying the nice weather, since winter has been taking place for about a year now.  Chloe was loving being outside playing fetch with Dan, and running and jumping around.  
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*Notice:  we are making the same face…and it wasn’t even planned. :)
I think we found a place in AF to live, but we are really sad to leave our house.  It really feels like home to us now. 
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  On Saturday we participated in our 1st real race.  Every year The Utah Bar Association puts on a 5K called The Law Day Run.  The money earned is used to provide free or discounted legal services for people in Utah who can’t afford it.  Danny’s dad’s firm sponsored us and we had a blast.  Danny insisted that he bring Chloe to participate and so he stayed behind with her, sometimes having to carry her because she would get too tired.  5 kilometers is pretty far for those tiny little legs.  He and Chloe finished right around 35 minutes, and I came in around 25 minutes.  I’m really glad we did it.  It was hard, a lot uphill, but knowing that every hill I went up I would eventually get to go down made it bearable.
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The runners, Dan, Chloe, Me, Tony (Dan's Dad)
Now if we could only have a continuous weekend.  I totally have the Sunday blues.                
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Sunday, May 8, 2011

Homeless

So a couple days ago we got a letter in the mail from our landlords.  They let us know that although they had told us just 2 weeks earlier that they would be renewing our lease for 2 more years, they had changed their minds and we needed to vacate the premises by May 31st.  Apparently, they are planning on tearing the place down to expand the motion picture studio behind us.  So, we are on the verge of being homeless, and are looking for a place to live.  I am pretty distraught about it.  We have fixed up our house pretty cute, it's comfortable, we love our ward, and we are happy where we are.  We have looked a little bit for other places to rent, but after being in a house, we really don't want to go back to apartment living, plus rent is SO expensive, and we are getting a great deal where we're at.  If anyone knows of good, reasonably priced places to rent, PLEASE share.  We only have a couple more weeks, and if we can't find anything, we'll be going back to my parents....not that it's a bad thing, but you know...we wanna be on our own.  UGH.  The joys of renting.